My whole day was geared to getting home in time to go with the kids to ice skating which was really doable if the surgery closed at 14:30 went as planned I could get home from Biddulph easily, but as is the way right now the job was planned by someone out of their depth.
I arrived on the yard as Mommy was driving off so my work home life was AFFECTED when there was absolutely no need.
I was contacted this week by colleagues from my last job at Consulsoft asking if I would be interested in a vacancy at their new business, and at first it frightened me because I was not expecting it, I don’t like surprises! When they contacted me a second time in two days I began to listen because where I am currently seems to have no future anymore and it would do no harm to hear what they had to say?
Yesterday, I heard that one of the accounts team who had recently endured being made redundant and had to apply for his own job had handed his notice in after successfully getting his own job back. He felt they had treated him poorly and there was no point staying in a company willing to do that. I tended to agree with him and that if they can do it to accounts who’s next, so with that I asked for my number to be passed to HR at Practice Point.
I prepped for a call at 2:30 today reading up on their parent company ClearCourse made pointers on highlighting my strengths tailored to what I thought they would be looking for and sat watching the clock and dead on time it rang.
What happened next was a bit weird, a lady began talking only briefly pausing to allow me to speak but basically tried to sell the company to me to the point that it felt like I was being “headhunted” She asked me about salary expectations and once I told her she said she would be in touch soon and it was over…?
After feeling nervous beforehand, I was left a bit shell-shocked, trying to process what had just happened and the possibility that I may have reached a fork in the road we shall see, I guess!
Tonight we played second placed Eight Farmers a team vying for top spot and full of good players but we believe we should not be bottom of the league and we are improving each week especially since Christmas.
Tonight we won the first frame but narrowly lost the next three and were staring down the barrel but we all still believed a frame would get us back in the match. All was not lost. I played the fifth frame followed by PJ DL & LF and just like that we were 5 3 up with just the doubles to play.
We would have settled for a 5 all draw before the match started but now we had two chances to win both points. I bottled the first frame letting my partner PJ down, and was so annoyed with myself but we still had the last frame to win it all.
DH talked JEB brilliantly through the whole frame and put huge pressure their pair and forced a mistake that left JEB a tough double which he cooly made to take the spoils.
It’s always good to win, and that is our 3 win from 4 in 2024…!
Another unpublished draft this time from 08/11/11 at 00:08 (not sure about the time?)
The only person that could ever answer that question is Mommy, all I can say is she loves being a mommy to Reagan and Lincoln but sometimes having spent every waking hour\minute with them and their trials and tribulations she deserves an hour in bed without a care in the world while I take the strain somewhat? I am sat here looking at my adorable little boy praying he doesn’t wake for another hour or so while Jamie is in bed relaxing if he wakes I am armed with 2oz of mommies finest breast milk in a teeted bottle waiting for the first murmur!
Years have past and this is still relevant, well apart from the breast milk bit?
I went to Howarths timber merchants on Saturday morning to purchase wood, my favourite thing to do apart from get it home and play with it in my shed of coarse but while I was there I thought i wold order some plywood. I had avoided this until now because as Jamie and i had sat over christmas chatting I had priced up 18mm ply and it was around £50 per sheet and we needed 3 for some shelves 1 for my bench maybe 2 but we soon realised with delivery that we could not afford to get it until February and we had been paid again.
Anyway I bought th wood I had gone for and stood talking to the guy there and he asked me if I had an account or am I paying cash to which I replied you always ask me that what is the difference and he explained that trade prices and loyalty bring the cost down so I said I would like an account and signed up. The prices I had been getting were trade prices anyway becauase they had notied me coming in quite often but now they can make sure I always recieve those prices no matter who serves me or which branch I go into so thats a benefit.
I ordered 3 sheets of plywood and was surprised how cheap they were when the bill for 2 x 18mm and 1 x 12 mm came to less than £90 and they said they would deliver it Tuesday which was fine I was in no rush. It arrived at dinnertime today it was raining and I was working so had to ask Jamie to help get it down to my shed where I stood it up next to it and covered it in black plastic sheeting and that is where it still is unfortunately because it was dark and still raining by the time I finished work so I can’t even start to rip it down worse still I am in the office tomorrow so Thursday at the ealiest biut most likely weekend before I can play with my wood.
I think getting sheets of wood home has been one of those things that holds me back, perhaps now I can free up that issue and get stuff made?
Lincoln paid for a game for his computer and it would not load and as always in thse situations of which there have been many when his tech lets him down he stresses, but this time tech had not let him down it was his homework on what the game requires to run. In the required spec it clearly states Intel i5 processor or higher his contained and i3 thus rendering his £30 outlay wasted. I just so happened that I had been working on a broken PC for a few days which was exactly what he required and if I could get it working I had no use for it so he could have it.
Imanaged to get it to boot using new SSD and reinstalled Windows 10 but let him stew on his mistake over night while I updated the pc to Windows 11 and added antivirus etc
Anyway I let him know he can have it and lets just say he was quite pleased!
We live a very privileged existence right now not going without much that we either need or want but that does not mean we are in any way shape or form rich or affluent it just means that we choose what is important to us to spend our money on, yes the bathroom needs decorating the kitchen is tired the facias need replacing but for now big expenditure takes a backs seat while we (Jamie) concentrates on debt management while making sure we live a good life too.
Children do not realise the struggles of adulthood unless we educate them and learn what they can have and can’t have through behaviour of us as parents it would be nice to have bajillion pounds that would allow us to never go without and have everything we ever wanted right there and then, we haven’t so we cut our cloth accordingly.
Lincoln is not exempt from thinking “money grows on trees” but his sister unfortunately has come to think we are rich or at least have plenty of money and has no respect for how hard both Jamie and me work for the luxury’s of life we allow ourselves. She loves going out with Mommy because she knows mommy will always spend money on her and very often buy her what ever she wants whether it be large or small but the gratitude is fleeting once the money is spent and she can all too often switch off when the purse closes, knowing that continuing to be nice is a waste of time.
I see it in her even at the supermarket and will avoid taking her because she turns nasty when I invariably say no to all her requests and then I have to suffer the mood she goes into because she did not get her way or what she wanted, and I detest it so won’t entertain shopping with her at all. When she has her own money she loves spending it no matter what its on, sweets Dr Pepper, perfume, cosmetics, whatever it is she loves the rush of spending money but when her money has gone she almost demands that we spend money on her, and is not very pleasant if we don’t?
I love her to bits but her lack of respect for money and how hard it is to earn is easily her worst trait and she needs to learn that her “privileged” lifestyle can easily end if either of us loses our job or if she disrespects the toil that brings that money to the table.
“NO!” does not mean we don’t love her it means we love her enough to teach her that we do not always get what we want!
The worst thing happened at Ice Skating tonight after Lincoln missed last week through injury Reagan was moved up a class leaving her brother in the lower one. She looked so shocked but also immensely proud of herself as she skated over to her new class and started learning new stuff.
Lincoln was fine, although I am sure he was, ever so slightly jealous, he looked like he was doing really well so won’t be long before he levels up. Reagan on the other hand could barely do the tasks asked of her because she kept glancing up to me in the stands looking for confirmation from me that she’d done well and I gave her the thumbs up as she nearly fell over because she was looking at me and not concentrating.
Mommy arrived unexpectedly from London where she’d been all week to surprise us which thrilled both children having missed her but it was right at the end of the lesson so it was left to Reagan to explain what had happened. I do not think Lincoln apreciated the fact that she was still going on about it 2 hours later clearly she was very proud of herself but he was clearly not arsed about her achievement after having it force fed to him 20 times.
She had done really well and it was a good achievement hope she will afford him the same tolerance next week if he levels up?
As Jamie left Harley Street this evening, gushing at how well her day had gone, I could hear the absolute glee in her voice as she told me how well her presentation to all the bigwigs of London Womens Clinic had gone, and that she had made some of them so emotional that they actually cried, I just thought of how all the hard work was now bearing fruit,
Ever since she went to school she knew she found it easy and probably struggled to succeed because she was not challenged which is such a shame because she is so intelligent with so much potential she just needed a chance an outlet a new start a complete reset.
A life in England UK was absolutely not the life plan as she sat drinking vodka, smoking cigarettes and browsing MySpace but fate can play funny tricks on you if you are not careful. Neither Jamie or me could have ever envisaged how well the next 16 years would go but for Jamie it was a second chance to realise her academic potential and become the person she could be but this time on her own terms.
From the disappointment of missing out on her preferred course at the Open University, to eventually being accepted, graduating, starting her own business, excelling in her chosen field, being employed by one of the leading infertility clinics in the country, becoming head of a whole department within that company, trusted in managing their patient welfare and being asked to present what counselling means to their infertility clients succeeding in making the “bigwigs” realise the importance of what she does, just blows me away!
I have had the privilege of a front row seat watching this journey and can not wait to watch just how far she can go because at the moment the sky is the limit. I hope I can be there for her and where ever the next part of the journey takes her!
Well Done Dude
As I have blogged on many many occasions I have played pool on a Wednesday since the early 80s and I do like it but my team Steventons are struggling a bit this season and it’s now we have strong languishing at the bottom of the table.
I am the captain and if I waver or do not lead from the front how can I expect the lads to perform as a team. I had forgotten this until we came back after Christmas probably because my form had been poor and its hard to be positive with myself let alone try and motivate others, but since Christmas the team has grown a little with a modicum of success a couple of weeks ago we won our first game of the season in my absence the were beaten by top of the league but tonight it was really apparent that although disappointing last week we looked like we wanted to win and also thought we could win.
Although we went 1 nil down we stuck to the task with some good personal performances and some poor reffing did not derail the team performance. It was nice that I won my frame but it was great to see us beat Turnpike A when we went from 5 2 ahead to be pegged back to 5 4 and it was left to me and PJ to win the final frame of doubles to register our second win of the season.
Unfortunately, second from bottom Rifleman won a point at Warmingham White Lion so that keeps us at the foot of the table but it was great to be part of our second win of the season and hopefully we can keep the momentum going.